Mom Update
It’s been a while since I wrote anything about my mom. If you follow me on Facebook, you’ve probably noticed a number of posts recently about long nights in the ER with her. I appreciate the kind concerns and prayers from friends and family. But while I know they’re well intended, the “hope she gets well soon” sentiments cut like a finely honed blade. Mom isn’t going to get well. She has good days and bad. More and more of the latter. Today’s “good days” are about the same as the bad ones a couple months ago. She has vascular dementia. In addition to her mental slippage, her legs have grown weak and uncooperative, adding to her pre-existing balance issues. We plead with her to call for assistance to get out of bed. Unfortunately, she can’t remember that she’s had numerable falls lately, so she continues to try to get up and around on her own, resulting in more falls. And in more trips to the ER. She has dislocated her right hip twice now. She’s hit her head more times ...
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I'm so sorry you've lost your little companion and friend. You gave her a good life and good times.
I thought about you all day today. Even though I didn't know Sammie, I feel your loss. The pet community lost a good one today. I'm so very sorry you've had to endure all of this. My heart breaks for you.
May Sammie rest in peace. You gave her a good life and a lot of unconditional love. I'm also getting teary eyed just looking at her sweet picture.
May you find comfort and solace soon.