Caregivers Guilt

If you've known me for any length of time, you probably know that the character of Harry Adams (Lost Legacy, Uneasy Prey, Cry Wolf, Til Death) is loosely based on my dad, who had Alzheimer's. And you might also know that my mom later was diagnosed with vascular dementia. 


The topics of caregiving and especially caregiver's guilt, of which I'm well acquainted, are near and dear to my heart. 

I was honored (and quite frankly, a bit terrified) to join my dear friends Bobbi and Mike Carducci on their Rodger That podcast to share my experiences with the topic. It's one of the hardest interviews I've ever done. Click here to listen. 

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